From February 7th to 14th is Valentine's Week. After Rose Day comes Propose Day, i.e. the day to propose love. Let me know what you have been wanting to say for a long time but have not been able to say. One thing to note, in this case, the proposal comes more from the side of boys. It is not that girls do not propose at all. But it is so low that it goes unnoticed many times.
Why do most of the boys propose? Why can't the girl go ahead and say love? The girl who likes to talk openly should hide her face completely in this case. If you say it before, there will be a huge loss! In fact, what is the matter, which girls do not propose before? Let's find out-
By nature, girls are shyer than boys, thinking that it might seem impudent. So they think about what might happen if they go forward to express their love or propose to the boy. They think, maybe the boy will find him shameless. So even if he loves in his heart, he waits when the boy will tell him that he loves him. At the same time, the path will be called.
Maybe the boy is his good friend for fear of losing the friendship . The girl does not want to lose this friendship. Maybe you fell in love with friends! But if it is lost, if the friend does not accept him or return him, then there will be friendship! Girls are afraid to propose before thinking that they will not be able to maintain their friendship as before. But it is not only in case of girls but also in case of boys this fear works many times. For fear of losing friendship, they can't tell their loved ones about their love.
Fearing a loss of self-esteem,
the girl recoils again and again, thinking how shameful it will be if the boy rejects her. Even if the heart is lost because of the deprivation and humiliation of returning empty-handed, it is a relief! Therefore, while maintaining self-esteem, one suffers in one's own mind.
Assuming this is normal
, it can be seen from the history, for ages, boys have been the first to propose. So, assuming this is the norm, girls wait for guys to propose. They do not propose themselves. Sure, there are some girls who break the norm, but most girls think it's normal that the boy will come first and express his love.
Thinking that the boy can be indulged, if
he goes ahead and tells his mind, if he gets indulgence? Maybe he already likes in his heart, but the girl can increase the opposite feeling if he says it in advance. Or even in a relationship, it can always remind you that you were the one who said love first! Thinking about this, the girl may come back.
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